Having completed my Stranger Things month, there’s quite a bit to share and provide updates on.
Also, it’s my wonderful, amazing wife’s birthday today! So, I wish her a happy birthday filled with rest, good food, and fun.
First off, I recently accepted an offer for a new job that will remove me from technical writing and editing. This does not mean my technical writing and editing skills will no longer be needed, rather it means I will no longer provide support solely on these grounds. My new job will allow me writing and editing opportunities but I do not think they will be as often like before. I’ve come to grips with this change and find myself at peace and satisfied. New doors will open with this position that otherwise would be blocked off from me and these new doors will be needed since my next bit of news (the best bit of news) will call for a higher salary.
My wife and I learned that she is pregnant with our first child! Baby on the way! This has rocked our world in some ways but as each week passes, we have become more and more excited at the prospect of adding a new addition to our family (that sounds so cliché but still true). With this, I realize that my life will be drastically changed. I’ve always wanted to have kids and have wondered what I would be like as a dad. I’ve proactively begun to envision circumstances and situations and prepared myself as best as I can for each, envisioning myself as a calm, cool-tempered patriarch who knows how to handle any given situation (in reality, I’m going to have those days where I just want to throw in the towel, find a bag of chips and lock myself in the bathroom for a good salty ten minutes). Alas, I am going to be a father and I’ve been trying my best to prepare myself for what that means.
I should also forewarn everyone that my blog posts will include these fatherhood anecdotes and what not. While my wife and I are fairly private, I will include things about our journey because it will likely be unconventional (we’re not the run of the mill sort and bit weird at times). I am a writer but I am also a person of questions, fears, joys, preferences, and opinions. To know all of me as a writer, is to understand the wanderings of my mind in everything.
When it comes to my writing, not a whole lot has changed. The biggest thing I want to share is I have set a goal to finish my current revision by the end of the year. I want to have it finished, polished to a shining reflection, and begin the agent querying phase in January. So I’ll have quite a bit to share over these last months of 2017 and more so in 2018. I realize that while I can bide my time and keep a consistent but comfortable pace with revising So Speaks the Gallows, I need to put a note on the calendar and make that a reasonable and attainable goal.
I saw a tweet a few weeks ago asking writers what they consider to be their ideal success as a writer. I thought about it and came to the truth. I do not care if I ever become a bestselling author (I won’t turn away the accolade either, I should add). Success in my mind, the fulfillment of my heart, looks like this: to have my book in hardback/paperback form sold on the shelves of a bookstore.
That’s it. If I can do that just once, I will have met my dream as a writer. I have a sneaking suspicion that I will meet this goal more than once (multiple books) but at the very least, to hold my book in my hand is my measure of success.
Call to Action: I wanted to leave a break between Stranger Things here on my blog and in my mind (LOL) so I think two posts is good enough. Make sure to watch season 2 and watch for the next blog post where I breakdown the new season and give my overall impressions and thoughts. (Don’t worry, there will not be any spoilers.)