I’ve always had this desire to be a songwriter. I’ve dabbled with poetry and lyrics on many occasions, however, I am not able to write the music to accompany said lyrics due to my lack of knowing how to play guitar or piano (that’s all you need, right?). So, I am left to embrace the songs and lyrics of others, forever envious.
I want to explore some music that speaks directly to me and give the reasons why. Seeing as how I’m a writer, it only makes sense that I do this from a lyrical angle rather than by the music behind the words. I hope to do this more often (at least once a month) just to add a bit more varied content.
I found Cold War Kids a few years ago, hearing their song “First” from their “Hold My Home” album while listening to the radio. I was instantly gripped by it (note: this is not the song I’ll be discussing, lol). As one does, I began to go through their back-catalogue since they released several albums before this current one. My immediate thoughts were, “How have I never heard this band before?!” My wife can vouch for this but Cold War Kids became my favorite band after this long immersion into their music. There was just too much that caught my ear from the lyrics to the musicality of the band who seemed to have a distinct and fresh sound.
From then on, I followed the band eager to know when another new album would come out. “L.A. Divine” was released in April 2017 and man oh man, I love the album. Ask my wife and she’ll tell you I may be a little obsessed because I can always listen to this one. The song I want to explore in today’s post is the track, “Restless”. Take a listen:
People wonder, people talk
We’re supposed to settle down
How we ever got this far
Without our feet touching the ground
What time is it now where you are?
We follow beats with different drums
We’re looking at the same star
It is a talent staying young
Try to keep it all up in the air
You ruin it when you ask why
You know it’s not that I don’t care
I don’t get jealous, I get free
Everything good comes back to me
It seems like wherever you are
Is just a better place to be
Where I want to focus most though in the lyrics is at the end of verse two. I remember being with my wife in our car, driving out of town and listening to the whole album. This song came on and I pointed out the lyrics: I don’t get jealous, I get free/Everything good comes back to me
I told her that if I ever got a tattoo of song lyrics, it would be these two lines. She asked why and I’ll share with all of you what I shared with her. I was pretty immature as a teenager which shouldn’t be a shocker. I was selfish and really lacked emotional maturity, often irked and acting out because I felt cheated in some way or another. However, as I got older and found clarity and confidence in myself, I realized my errors and learned from my previous mistakes because my immaturity affected relationships with others. I found freedom in this self-assurance, knowing that even though I wasn’t the first choice, I would still find joy and happiness (hint: my wife is a huge example of this but that story will be for another day).